2022.01.26 04:30 aritzia543 25 YO F and I think I may have a problem.
Hi everyone, new to this thread (I also never thought I would be here) so forgive me in advance for the potentially long post.
Some backstory… I’m a 25 YO F who didn’t truly start drinking until my 21st birthday. I never cared for it before then. My brother and I both had a very traumatic childhood and I saw him abuse alcohol for years before getting sober. (He’s now been 100% sober for around 3 years.) I don’t know the hard facts about alcoholics and genetics but I do know that there have been a handful of them in my family.
I made some new friends at 21 who were big into drinking and so it started.
It honestly wasn’t anything out of the ordinary until recently. I noticed that slowly I was drinking more and more. I would drink during the weekdays. In the evenings and sometimes as early as 3 PM. I’ve never been a wine, beer or champagne girl. Vodka has always been my drink of choice.
A few months ago I noticed I started taking shots throughout the day, multiple days a week.
This has all come to a head recently. Over the past couple months, I have had multiple hangovers where I psychically cannot get out of bed all day. The first time this happened I swore off alcohol and kept at it for awhile, but then I felt as though that was extreme and crept into my old ways.
Last weekend, I had yet again a terrible hangover. I had stayed up until 6 AM, and found myself nauseous and in pain, crying in bed at 4 PM. I spent the next few hours looking at sobriety videos.
Over the past few weeks I’ve found myself researching sobriety, reading articles, scouring Reddit and it feels as though if I’m thinking about it that much, that that should be a sign.
I suppose my fear is making a choice so drastic where I label myself as a non drinker. I know it’s silly and totally messed up, but if we’re being truthful, oftentimes society and people in general view non-drinkers as stuffy and uptight. I know that this has more to do with them being conditioned to think excessive alcohol is normal, but my point still stands.
I’ve found myself becoming disgusted at the amount of alcohol people I know and society in general drink, and how everyone finds every excuse in the book to justify it.
All I know for sure is that I don’t want to end up living the rest of my life hiding the amount of alcohol I drink or up at 2 AM reading Reddit sobriety threads. Lol
Just looking for any advice or guidance here and thank you so much if you’ve made it this far :)
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2022.01.26 04:30 PM-me-game-keyss [UPLB] hk 12 prof
how’s ma’am Buan in online classes?
gusto ko nang magtake ng hk pero lahat ng post about her in this sub say that she’s spooky
or any recommended profs?
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2022.01.26 04:30 Canopussir My webcomic "HYBRiD"episode 14 currently being made.
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2022.01.26 04:30 mangoraz Don’t mind the stuff written ._. Just some golf with friends stream things…. Haha
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2022.01.26 04:30 imyourforte McClaren > children
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2022.01.26 04:30 paulschmidt55 djpaulie's newest mix on TikTok
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2022.01.26 04:30 Disastrous-Remote-43 Is she breaking the law?
I have 3 SKs (14, 11, & 6). SO & I have 50/50. HCBM is a teacher. Back in October the kids missed school for three days in a row (her parenting time) because she “didn’t feel like going to work”
Now we found out that she’s unenrolled them from school two weeks ago because she got a job in another county and wants them to go to school there. She did this without consulting SO, which already goes against their court ordered agreement.
They were due to start school LAST Monday. She didn’t take them because their stepdad had Covid. Now this week, 14 year old SK texted me Monday morning saying “Mom isn’t taking us to school because she feels too weak.” SO called the school to get start time info, etc so we could take them. They aren’t even enrolled.
This is truancy, right? SO is pissed but doesn’t have any urgency to involved the court like I do. These kids are gonna be way behind academically and I’m really worried for them.
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2022.01.26 04:30 ERFANCOOL پست نزارید بزارین بچه سالا پست بزارم ببینیم چ میشه🗿
2022.01.26 04:30 dragonladyslegacy Proper education for a 9yr old girl
I have a close minor relative girl (9) who needs better sexual education than she has already received. Her past stepfather was a C.M. and had forced her to jck him off when she was 3 (charges pending) and she also has a baby Sis and Bro who she helped change diapers for, no issue there; for context, she's already seen a boys parts from birth and how they are different, so we can't act like boys and men and kids are all the same to her. So at this point we know that she knows boys are different, and so are men, and they pee outta that, but they want somebody else to touch it...
We need her to understand that it is not her job to touch it for them, and I know for sure that nobody has taught her about her own biology and why she might feel tingly or whatever. To this point, (since she's been potty trained) we have all taught her that her privates are Private, and nobody should be touching them but her. However, someone should tell her it's ok to explore her own self and feel tingly on her own.
It may not be normal/common, but I started exploring my own body (f) around the age of five or six, so I assume that it's getting close to time to teach her about her own female body on a biological level; I think she should know the difference between a clitoris and a peehole and a vaginal hole... And what purpose they all serve. Maybe I should make a PowerPoint or something?
In general, at least in my own experience, nobody told girls about things like that. We all (boys and girls) thought we had the same number of input/output holes at that age; we thought we had three: eat poop, pee. We all eat thru our mouths, poop from our butts, and pee from our crotches, in front of our butt... and the only difference was whether we had a hose or spiget to pee from...
As a kid, we don't realize that a girl's spiget for pee doesn't come from the vaginal hole. It has its own hole, south of the clit and north of the vaginal hole. (Today u learnd if u didn't know)
and we didn't know what or where a clit was at. Is it too early to learn? How can I tell her without sounding like a weirdo? I am her elder of same sex, but I'm have to be careful and sorta PC about it, at the same time warning her about STDs, men who will try to woo/use her for sex, girls that will try to trap her into their false-glamorous hootchie lifestyle to get her to be a camgirl or stripper or hooker or whatever.
I want to teach her in a way that she respects herself, loves herself, knows what she wants for herself, and also be modest and respectable in public. ...
But also in a way that she won't settle for being less than satisfied when she finally gets old enough to marry a man. Especially if she's expected to satisfy him.
Also, I want to completely terrify her about STDs because these lil fast ass hoe rat men (and women) that are going around screwing everything, they will lie and tell her anything, and infect her without warning, and she needs to kno that they will make her crotch lumpy and itchy and infected for LIFE if she doesn't have some self-respect and be a choosy and patient and careful about who she wants to sleep with. I want to scare the living shit out of her with close-up pics of herpes and genital warts and green leakage or whatever the nastiest nasty STDs can be. I want her to be too grossed out to consider touching anyone elses privates for as long as possible...I know it's too much, but when their hormones are blazing, they still don't gaf, and thats the exact minute they need a reminder like BLAM here's a leaking herpes outbreak Blam here's a pickled dik BLAM here's a person dying from AIDS because their partner was cheating.
She needs to fear and understand lifelong consequences of sex. And on top of that, all the risks and responsibilities of pregnancy, and the fact that she has to give up pretty much all of her lifelong goals if she ever gets pregnant. And then appreciate her own mother finally, for doing the same for her. And if she doesn't want to live her life as a mother, she should know how to avoid that scenario with birth control or other measures...
Also, because we are American Christians, I feel it's important to teach her bout circumcisions eventually too; maybe not in the same conversation, but she should know it's not the natural way boys are born; she should, at the very least, know that this is a surgery they undergo, and boys are not born snipped. This will save her from looking stupid an being uneducated if ever she comes across an uncircumcised penis in her life....
I personally haven't spoken to her about any of this, but we have caught her trying to be sexy at the swimming pool singing Nicki Minaj songs at older boys and trying to dance sexy in her swimsuit....and trying to get off her bus at an early bus stop to hang out with "friends." (One was a boy) .... So somebody should educate her, and I am a close female elder; her dad doesn't know how to approach the subject, and her mom is geologically distant, and both parents probably would appreciate if I said something... Would I be crossing the line?
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2022.01.26 04:30 Great-Blueberry7557 Pushpa Areyyyy
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2022.01.26 04:30 _iamsomeone 20M let's see if we have anything in common
I'm a 20M from Europe Some of stuff I love are:
Tell me about yourself and whay we have in commonnnn 🙃
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2022.01.26 04:30 jondangles_ Lazy, messy gf (25)
Every time I ask her to clean up, she gets defensive and either storms off or raises her voice. I always remain calm and ask her nicely to clean up after herself, but it’s getting to the point where it’s really bothering me and I’m finding it real hard to continue being patient before I explode. It’s just impossible to live with her.
She is renting at her own place but stays at my place quite often. I cook, clean, do the dishes, do the washing, pay for food, literally everything and she just sits on the couch or in the bed on her phone.
Example, she came back from a holiday at the start of Jan with a bag she was going to send back to her dad. It’s the end of January and it’s still sitting in the same spot and I want it gone. I’ve asked her like 5 times what she’s doing it and it’s always an excuse or “I’ll do it later”
Example: there’s a pile of clothes (clean and dirty) in my bedroom which is constantly there.
Example: dining room table, my half of the table is clean and her half of the table is full of shit.
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2022.01.26 04:30 NoAstronaut7015 Organizing Schedule
Hi everyone! I’m just wondering how you guys are sorting out your assignments and stuff. I put all my due dates into my laptops calendar (which syncs with my phone), and then I have a weekly to do list. But I’m finding this less effective, especially with six courses. Should I buy a planner or something?
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2022.01.26 04:30 ActualGuyFieri All the time
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2022.01.26 04:30 DeadendEndeavor I tried this to change filament but then I had no way of resuming the print. Printing from USB on Artillery Sidewinder. Resume button didn’t do anything and it sat there for 10 minutes before I stopped the print.
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2022.01.26 04:30 Vibvir The old apothecary, art by me, Photoshop digital painting, 2015
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2022.01.26 04:30 goldminevelvet Featured playlist not showing on channel
I looked this up but no one seems to have a solution for this or they are explaining something else.
I organized my videos earlier today into 4 different playlists. I had them on the channel in the order I wanted it and it was fine. Went to show someone my channel and I saw that one of the playlists isn't showing up. So instead of 4, I only have 3. I double checked in my Studio and I see the playlist in there it's just not showing on the main page of my channel.
How do I fix this?
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2022.01.26 04:30 DokCyber I told my son I was named after Thomas Jefferson… He said, But dad, your name is Brian. I said, I know, but I was named AFTER Thomas Jefferson.
I told my son I was named after Thomas Jefferson… He said, But dad, your name is Brian. I said, I know, but I was named AFTER Thomas Jefferson.
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